Back in 2002, a handful of LGBTQ+ flag football teams came together for something simple: the chance to play the sport they love, unapologetically. That first Gay Bowl was scrappy, small and community-driven, but it laid the groundwork for something much bigger.
Fast forward to 2025, and Gay Bowl 25 will land in San Diego with record-breaking numbers: 120 teams, more than 3,000 athletes and supporters, and a whole weekend designed to celebrate football, community and Pride in style.
“It’s truly historic,” said Ivan Solis, the co-tournament director. “What started small has become the premier LGBTQ+ sporting event in North America. It’s still about the competition, but also about community, representation and creating a space where LGBTQ+ athletes can compete at the highest level while being their authentic selves.”
The Gay Bowl has always been about more than football. For too long, LGBTQ+ athletes were pushed into silence, made to feel like they had to choose between the game they loved and living openly. This tournament flips that narrative. “The Gay Bowl has been a game-changer,” Solis said.
“It proves you don’t have to choose. It’s created a national stage that shows LGBTQ athletes are strong, competitive, and proud. We’ve even seen professional leagues like the NFL recognize and support the Gay Bowl, which just keeps pushing the conversation forward about inclusion in sports.”
San Diego is stepping up as the perfect host for this 25th anniversary milestone. This marks the third time the city has hosted, which is rare and telling of the local love for the tournament. Between its world-class fields, ocean views and the vibrant Hillcrest LGBTQ+ neighborhood, the city is as much a star of the show as the players on the field.
Ivan Solis
“It’s created a national stage that shows LGBTQ athletes are strong, competitive, and proud. We’ve even seen professional leagues like the NFL recognize and support the Gay Bowl, which just keeps pushing the conversation forward about inclusion in sports.”
The tournament will take place at Surf Sports Park in Del Mar, where 24 fields located just two miles from the beach will buzz with competition. Free shuttle buses for the players from the host hotel, Town and Country Resort in Mission Valley, will make it easy to get from game time to party time without a hitch.
Speaking of parties, Gay Bowl 25 will have a lineup of events that will turn the weekend into more than just football. Things will kick off on Wednesday, October 1, with an Early Arrival Party at Uptown Tavern in Hillcrest, easing everyone into the long weekend.
Thursday, the Opening Ceremonies at Town and Country Resort will set the official tone, followed by a late-night bash at Flicks in Hillcrest. Friday will turn up the energy with an EQ Women’s+ Party, an Open Party at Rich’s, and a late-night scene at Number 1 Fifth Ave in Hillcrest.
Saturday will keep the rhythm alive as Gossip Grill in Hillcrest will host the Women’s+ Party, while Number 1 Fifth Ave and The Rail will carry the night into the early morning with dance floors and cocktails flowing. By Sunday, after a weekend of touchdowns and tailgates, everyone will come together for the Closing Ceremonies at Broadway Pier, a signature sendoff that will capture the spirit of the tournament.
And for those not ready to call it quits, The Rail will keep the music going with another after-party that same night. Finally, Monday will offer the perfect cooldown: a Recovery Brunch at Mo’s Bar & Grill, where athletes and fans can trade highlights, hugs and maybe a few aspirin before heading home.
“I love that San Diego really offers it all,” Ivan said. “Athletes will be able to gather, celebrate and feel at home. Whether that’s under Friday night lights or out in the community after the final whistle.”
Looking ahead, Solis said he envisions a Gay Bowl that keeps building on its legacy: “In 25 years, I see the Gay Bowl growing; maybe even becoming international. I imagine more pro-league partnerships and a world where the ‘LGBTQ+ athlete’ isn’t a label, just part of sports. But above all, I envision this tournament staying the safe, competitive, celebratory place where people form lifelong friendships and inspire the next generation to play without limits.”
From fierce competition on the field to unforgettable nights in Hillcrest, Gay Bowl 25 will be more than just a tournament — it will be a four-day celebration of sport and community. Whether you’re an athlete, a fan or just here for the after-parties, San Diego will promise the ultimate Pride-meets-football weekend.
